A Complete Guide For Parents To Survive The Summer Holidays

A Complete Guide For Parents To Survive The Summer Holidays

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When children get bored in the long summer days, parents suffer too. Get prepared early with some fun ideas and resources to survive the summer.

Oh, the summer holidays are around the corner. What most would picture themselves doing is having the time to laze around at the beach and munching on ice cream during the long summer day. Unless you are one of the people who have the title of a parent, then, that is unfortunately not the case for you. You worry about what your children will be up to when school is closed. Will they injure themselves? Pick up bad habits? Get bored?

Here, you can find a comprehensive guide to help your kids have a fun and meaningful summer. And equally important: for you to have a peace of mind so that even without schools, you will survive!

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Before the summer holidays start:

Have a plan and stock up resources

While this sounds like a no-brainer, having the right game plan is crucial if you want a peaceful summer. As your work carries on while your children now have all the time in the world to have fun (create troubles), having some resources ready will be essential.

Depending on your child's age and interests, you may consider stocking up resources for them in advance. This will mitigate boredom and its related destructive symptoms, including unnecessary calls and messages, complaints about boredom or requests for new toys and new gadgets.

Books

Do you mean actual books? Yes. Engaging your children with books might sound old. Fact is, they never get old. Reading as the time-proven pass time for children provide many benefits and there are actually many children's books authors consistently producing quality works. If you’re stuck for inspiration on what to buy or borrow, check out the list below:

For 5-8

Fanatical about frogs

If your children like nature, animals or frogs, consider this beautifully illustrated book by Owen Davey. 4.5 out of 5 rating on Goodreads.

Fanatical about frogs

What do machines do all day

For your kids who are interested in machines! The younger ones can enjoy the graphics while the older ones can read and learn more about how different machines work.

what machines do all day

Lubna and Pebble

A children's book that explores the meaning of friendship in times of uncertainty. From Wendy Meddour to your little ones' gentle hearts. 4.48/5 Goodreads rating.

Lubna and Pebble

For 9-12

Wildspark

4.66/5 rating on Goodreads, this book by Vashti Hardy is an enjoyable read with a mix of fantasy, science fiction, school stories, and what it means to love and to lose.

Wildspark

High-Rise Mystery

The detective duo is out to solve another case this summer holiday. Rated 4.43 out of 5 on Goodreads, this young adult fiction by Sharna Jackson brings your children to a mystery adventure.

High Rise Mystery

For 12+

In Other Lands

4.36 average rating on Goodreads, this tale by bestselling author Sarah Rees Brennan is about friendship, falling in love and diplomacy.

In Other Lands

The Dentist of Darkness

The second of The Dundoodle Mysteries by David O'Connell, this book is a must-read for the curious who love ghosts, monsters, and marshmallows.

The Dentist of Darkness

Educational toys and gifts

For nature-lovers:

Butterfly Garden is a best-seller on Amazon. Let your kids raise some butterflies and discover wonders of nature this summer.

Butterfly Garden box

For the young detectives:

Master detective toolkit has a majority customers rate 5 stars on Amazon. It allows your young detectives to learn the tools, understand forensic science and experiment hands-on. Solve some mysteries in this long summer break.

Master detective toolkit box

For the little musicians:

Enjoy some music created by your little ones this summer with this tambourine set!

Tambourine set

For Generation Tech:

For your children who grow up being surrounded by the Internet and mobile devices, what is better than a toy that teaches the very foundation of coding - unplugged. Find more unplugged coding activities for kids here.

Unplugged toy

Mindful parenting

Having the resources ready to entertain your children's curiosity is only part of the summer plan. A right mindset is equally crucial. If you have not heard of mindfulness or mindful parenting, now is a perfect time to start knowing more about it!

The essence of it is about being in touch with feelings when interacting with your kids. Take note of how both you and your children are feeling even when there is tension or conflict. A lot of times, when children misbehave: yelling on the streets or crying out loud on the train, we see the parents get angry and raise their voice too. However, mindful parenting offers us a more effective and sustainable alternative. It goes down to understanding the reasons behind your kids' tantrums. As children's cognition is still developing, so are their emotional regulation ability. When they fail to handle the intensity of their emotions, they may burst out and throw a tantrum. To set a good example, parents should be calm. This will demonstrate to your children that with practice, they too can control their own emotions. Besides, it prevents further escalation of the tension.

However, when your kids are yelling and everyone else around you are staring, it isn't the easiest time to remain calm. Mindful parenting provides us with some tips at this time of need.

  1. Notice your own feelings 
  2. Pause before reacting in anger 
  3. Listen carefully to your child's viewpoint even when you disagree
These tips are recommended by researches on mindful parenting.
Have a conversation with your children

Talk with your kid on how they want to spend their summer holidays. While it is tempting to ask "What's your summer plan?" and leave the rest to your child, it might not be effective especially if they are still young. If you are stuck, here are some useful questions to get you started.

  • What were the three things you wanted to try during school term but didn't have enough time? 
  • What are the three things you wish to do as a family during this summer holidays? 
  • To have an ideal summer holiday, what is one thing that you will be doing everyday? 

During summer holidays:

In case you have some free time to spend with your kids, here are some quick activity ideas. They do not need much preparation but can still be fun.

Catch a movie

There are quite a few family movies lined up this coming summer 2019. Try this short quiz to see which one you should watch together with your child.

Capture good memories

It's difficult to always be in the moment with the busy lives we lead. However, there are days or moments which we wish could stay longer. Recording them done is a good way to hold on to them. And revisit them to relive those happy memories.
According to Tristine Rainer, director of the Center for Autobiographic Studies, "Journaling is the time-proven method that ignites creativity and provokes change." and that "video blogging is the powerful expressive tool that transforms the way people communicate." Here we present a few ways to note down those precious memories. Introduce them to your children too if you'd like!
1. Bullet journal
Introduce your child to the bullet journal to spend a more productive and meaningful summer. To find out why you need it, check out this TEDxTalk on intentionality.
2. Art journal
Journaling is a good way for your children to develop an appreciation for everyday details. Your kids can also get creative in the process. Learn some basic techniques from available tutorials online such as this and this.
3. Video logging
Check out some basic vlog techniques and let your kids create their own vlog. There are many tutorials online and you can learn together. Creating a vlog can help your child practice his or her creativity. It also foster a sense of accomplishment while recording down the good memories.

Near the end

If things go according to plans, you will be celebrating the reopening of schools at this point. But we all know they often don't. So to give the summer holidays some closure, try some of the ideas below:

  • Vote the best photos from the summer as a family and print them out. Create an album the good old way. 
  • If you took videos, view them together on a weekend night. 
  • Write a review for the summer holidays

For more resources for the summer holiday, check out:

Like our A Complete Guide For Parents To Survive The Summer Holidays -- For more resources for parents:

References:

Kaminsky, M. S. (2010). Naked Lens - Video Blogging and Video Journaling to Reclaim the YOU in YouTube: How to Use Online Video to Increase Self Expression, Enhance Creativity, and Join the Video Regeneration. Retrieved from https://books.google.com.sg/books?id=grhR1eYswPkC

Mindful Parenting: How to Respond Instead of React by Parent Co. on October 6, 2017. Retrieved from https://www.gottman.com/blog/mindful-parenting-how-to-respond-instead-of-react/

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